I’ve always wanted to write, no matter if a book, lyrics for a song or something else. But I never knew when the perfect moment to begin something bigger is. I thought that I need something important to happen in order to have a beginning. But, in time, I realised that I was wrong. I don’t need anything. There are a lot of things happening everyday, things that are changing our thoughts, behaviour, mentality and so on. Things that matter because every day is a new start. Even if we don’t realise, all the small things have an impact on us. We don’t have to wait for the perfect moments, we have to create them. Because if we don’t, the time will pass by and someday we will wake up wondering ‘Why that didn’t happen?’ And the real answer will be ‘Because we did nothing for it.’ People are always waiting for others to do what they have to do, and they are trying to figure out the easy way in which they can have all, doing nothing. If you are not capable to do something for your own good, don’t ever expect someone else to do it. You have to learn to be on your own, and not to depend on someone else, letting their opinions influence you. You can do whatever you want, you just have to try and hope for the best.
Believe in you. Don’t let others drag you down by telling you different things to make you feel incompetent. Don’t always listen to your parents, family, teachers, friends or anyone else. Do what you really want and love. Because if you don’t, you’ll have regrets. And trust me: they’re not good. Nobody walks in your shoes, nobody feels what you feel so nobody can make your life worst only if you let them. If I could have written all my thoughts, I think I would have a lot of books until now. I have so much to say and I really hope that some of these things may help others. That feeling you have when some people thank you for helping them and changing their life…is priceless. All my life I tried to make people understand an important thing: if someone does something bad to you, don’t do the same! Most of them told me things like: ‘ obviously that I do the same. If I don’t, it’s like I am the loser. I can’t let them win. How am I supposed to act?’. Well, reacting like that in front of them already makes you a loser. They see you nervous, angry, frustrated…and this is exactly what they want. So, don’t let this get to your heart because it’s not worth it. I have reached a point in my life where I feel like I am really changed. Few months ago I didn’t believe that this is possible. I was thinking that if until then I was in a certain way, I couldn’t change. But i did. I started to see life differently. I learned that no matter what happens, you have to go through it. Now, when I have bad moments or days or something bad happens, I think that all these are happening because God thinks that I can handle them. And I’m not afraid, like I was before. I like to push myself to the limit, and see how far I can go. I take all the bad stuff as a challenge. And life is full of challenges.’
Respect from VicToR